
 
www.Destination-Wedding-Guide.com 
 
 
The Ultimate Destination Wedding Checklist 
 
 
  Think about the type of wedding you want 
Do you want a formal or informal affair? Big or small 
and intimate? Also think about the time of year you 
want it to take place 
 
  Create a budget  
Think about how much money you have now, what 
you will save in the next few months and anything 
your parents are contributing 
 
  Choose a destination  
Don’t forget to research its marriage requirements   
 
  Go for a site visit 
If time and budget allows it, this would be a great 
time to go for a site visit.  You can scout 
venues/resorts in person before making a decision, 
meet with vendors, do food tastings and 
hair/makeup trials 
 
  Choose a wedding date 
Avoid holidays, which can make airfare and hotels 
more expensive.  Also keep in mind your 
destination’s rainy and/or hurricane season 
 
 
  Settle on a venue, reserve your wedding date with 
them and put down a deposit 
 
  Request proposals and photos from resorts and/or 
venues that interest you   
You can request proposals via the venue/resort 
website, or by calling the wedding department 
 
  Start a binder to file all your paperwork, ideas and 
inspiration in one place 
For example, contracts, magazine pages or print outs 
of photos that inspire you (flowers, attire, favors, 
decorations)  
 
  Sit down with your fiancé and compile a guest list   
The rule of thumb is that about 20% of invited guests 
will not attend a traditional wedding, but this number 
goes up slightly for a destination wedding   
  Collect guest’s email and mailing addresses 
  Select the members of your wedding party  
 
  Shop for your dress 
Keep in mind the destination’s climate when 
choosing the style and fabric 
 
 
  Choose an officiant 
Discuss options with your local wedding planner 
 
  Book a photographer  
The good ones are booked quickly so do this sooner 
than later   
 
  Block hotel rooms for your guests 
Make sure you negotiate a group discount  
 
  Launch a wedding website 
Include photos of the destination and resort, links to 
make reservations, a list of wedding events, travel 
requirements.  Use this website to keep your guests 
updated and collect RSVP’s   
 
  Send out save the dates  
Include your website address  
 
  Hire a florist (if not provided by your venue) 
 
  Choose your menu and cake 
 
  Book the DJ or band 
If you can’t meet them in person, ask them to email 
you a demo of their music 
 
  Buy your shoes, headpiece, jewelry, garter, lingerie  
 
  Select your bridesmaids dress style and color 
 
  Create a gift registry 
Consider a honeymoon registry where guests can 
give you parts of your weddingmoom experience 
such as spa treatments, excursions or romantic 
dinners